How to Have a Successful Threesome

In recent times, threesomes have become more and more popular. After you find your threesome partner, there are a few things you should do to make it successful. Everyone needs to be on the same page and enjoy the experience, lest you will regret what happened. Here are a few tips to have a successful threesome.

Ensure everyone is Equally Excited and Comfortable with Each Other

Once you plan to have a threesome, make sure that everyone party to the threesome equally connects and is into doing it. None of you should have a guilty conscience or feel coerced into the act. Joining a team that a part of you does not want to be part of can make the experience a bad one.

To build the connection, threesome participants should go on a date and familiarize themselves with each other before sleeping together. That way, you will all build the much-needed rapport, both sexually and emotionally.

Set Boundaries

It is an essential part of the whole experience to discuss and set boundaries between the couples and the third party before the actual sex. It may be difficult to stick by the rules once in action, but sticking to the set boundaries will make you avoid regretting afterward.

If you are uncomfortable with someone playing with your butthole, express it to the other members of the threesome party beforehand. It would help if you also established safe words so that everyone may find an easy way to opt-out.

Communicate before and During Sex

You all need to communicate, even after the sex begins. If at any point any of you may feel uncomfortable, make sure to speak up. For instance, if you had earlier agreed that your partner would penetrate the third party with their penis and feel awkward watching, you need to find the safe words to speak up. It would be best if you also catered to the third party's needs because they are also out to have a pleasurable experience.

Do Not Be Jealous

Watching your partner enjoy themselves with someone else might be a daunting experience. However, it would help if you controlled your jealousy. One way to control jealousy is to only agree to a threesome only when you are in a stable relationship. Also, remember that you have a threesome to enhance your sexual life.

It would help if you were open-minded as things may not go as planned. Someone may be the center of attention once the action begins. The best thing to do, therefore, is to focus on pleasing everyone. Stay open-minded and be ready to try new things.

Discuss with Your Partner Afterward

A threesome may change the emotional stability of your relationship. Therefore, you have to talk to your partner once the sex is over and the third party leaves. Talk about how each one of you felt and if you both would love to have it again.

Summary

After having your successful threesome, you should also remember that the third person was also there to have a good time. Consider going out on a date together so that they do not feel like you used them as a sex toy.